Healthy Habits.
Stronger Marriages.
Building healthy habits for a stronger marriage
that honor god and each other
OUR STORY.
After more than 30 years in ministry, Roger and Jenny Luttrell have worked with hundreds of couples and have seen firsthand the challenges that can slowly pull a husband and wife apart.
Roger and Jenny have been married since 1993 and are the parents of four adult children, all of whom are married and thriving. As Roger often says, “We haven’t done marriage perfectly, but we have done it definitely by God’s grace.” That belief has become a foundation of their marriage and their desire to help other couples pursue Christ-centered marriages.
Through years of marriage, raising four children, and serving in ministry, Roger and Jenny discovered a simple truth: marriage is never static. Couples are either intentionally growing together or slowly drifting apart.
They call this gradual disconnection “The Drift.” It can happen quietly through busyness, poor communication, unresolved conflict, emotional distance, or simply failing to be intentional about the marriage.
Marriage Muscle Builders was born from a desire to help couples recognize and avoid "The Drift" by developing healthy ways to communicate each others needs, deepening emotional intimacy, and creating intentional habits that strengthen their marriage.
We’re not focused on behavior modification—we’re focused on heart transformation. Because when God transforms the heart, lasting change in the marriage can follow.
OUR MISSION.
Marriage Muscle Builders was created to help couples build healthy habits for a stronger marriage.
Our strategy is simple: help couples define what they want in their marriage and then help them get there. The BIG question is: “Do you want to be healed?” Do you want your marriage to thrive? If you do, but you’re not sure how to get there, reach out to us. We can tailor a coaching plan specifically for you and your spouse—wherever you are in your marriage.
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Help Us Help Marriages
Join us in helping couples build stronger, healthier marriages that create Christ-like change in families. Your support provides coaching scholarships for couples in need and helps us offer free marriage conferences, seminars, and retreats to churches with limited resources.
Together, we can make an eternal impact in marriages, families, and communities.
Give through your Donor Advised Fund
If you have a Donor-Advised Fund (DAF), you can recommend a grant to Marriage Muscle Builders to support coaching scholarships, marriage conferences, retreats, and our future ministry growth.
Organization: Marriage Muscle Builders
EIN: 41-3662452
Simply search for Marriage Muscle Builders through National Christian Foundation, Fidelity Charitable, Schwab Charitable, or your DAF provider and recommend your grant.
Together, we can make an eternal impact for God's Kingdom.
STORIES OF HOPE.
God continues to heal marriages through heart trransformation, intentional healthy habits, and biblical truth.
As someone in ministry, the pressures of life and serving others often left very little space for our marriage. We were constantly pouring out, but rarely slowing down to invest in each other. Over time, that created distance we didn’t fully recognize until it began affecting our emotional connection.
What we experienced wasn’t just improvement in communication—it was a renewal of friendship, emotional closeness, and shared purpose. We are more connected now than we’ve been in years, and it has positively impacted every area of our lives and ministry.